Reclaim your Confidence
Ditch your anxiety and self-doubt
Aida Morales, LPC
I help high-powered, successful, goal-oriented women who are in the limbo of wanting to make their relationships work and feeling exhausted by the undying cycle of being in love, hurt, confused, and being in love again.
My clients struggle like you do. Despite being loyal, hardworking, and successful- their relationships are the only thing that isn’t working.
When they first come to therapy, they want to work on their anxiety so their relationship can finally work. They feel confused, exhausted, and frustrated. They feel like if they could only control their anxiety and trust issues, maybe the arguments will finally stop. They know that things won’t be perfect…but relationships are hard work and you’re not one to give up.
FOR MY CLIENTS…
The feeling that they’re the problem is constant. Even in areas where they shine and earn respect, they worry that everything will fall apart if they stop trying to figure out what’s wrong.
They want to be loved…possibly more than anything they’ve succeeded for themselves. And they are loved, even desired by others, just not by the person they want most.
It gets confusing to both be so successful and confident in some areas yet still question whether they’re good enough. Because being the most loyal, the most committed, the best girlfriend or wife isn’t getting them the love they thought they found. Even though nothing they do seems enough, they keep trying to hold on because giving up isn’t in their vocabulary.
Not being the problem feels likely, but when shit hits the fan, it’s always because they brought something up. No one goes through the argument over and over again like they do. No one tries to make sense of it like they do.
When they first come in, my client’s feel like they don’t know who they are anymore. Whether it’s their confidence, the amount of effort they receive back, my client’s definition of self-worth is largely determined by how they’re treated by others.
They aren’t likely to believe that they’ve got everything going for them: career, goals, aesthetic, personality. They just want to feel like they’re appreciated.
I get it.
I truly get how confusing and exhausting that feels. And I have dedicated myself and my practice to helping women like you feel more than enough.
Like my clients…
You deserve to be with someone who sees you for who you are: The boss ass lady who anyone would be lucky to have a minute with.
You deserve to know that you are worth it.
You deserve to be surrounded by people who remind you that you’re good enough, not question your self-worth.
You deserve to have a relationship with someone who doesn’t make you feel like a problem because you want to talk.
Every. Day.
No matter if they’re angry or “had a bad day,” the love you receive shouldn’t depend on someone's mood of the day.
If you want to figure out if that relationship is still good for you or worth your time, I can help you figure it out and have the confidence to follow through with any decision you make that is good and healthy for you.
Hi, I’m Aida!
You didn’t work this hard to have someone make you question who you are or tell you what you can and cannot do.
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EMDR
Utilize your past experiences as empowering tools for your present experiences.
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Trauma
Break free from painful experiences and learn to increase your sef-worth.
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Ego-State Work
Understand and work towards healing your inner child by examining early childhood experiences that bother, confuse, or stand out to you.
Healing doesn’t have to be lonely.
Consult
Connect with me for a free consultation. We can discuss what you are looking for and answer any questions. Finding a therapist you feel you can connect with is essential.
Commit
Like my clients, you deserve to enjoy the full extent of your hard work without having to apologize for how strong you are.
Look at your busy schedule. Is there a time in there that you can dedicate each week to meet with me and experience what it’s like to have someone remind you how amazing you are?
Heal
Embrace the idea of moving confidently without feeling like you have to dim your light to appease the envy of others.
Schedule an appointment today.
You don’t have to feel confused or exhausted anymore. I can help.
change is brought about by reflection and intention.
You will never know less than what you know now.